May 8, 2026

Day 252 | Pele Yoeitz - Don't Get Involved in a Fight That's Not Yours

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Hey Khevra, today is Friday, day 252 in our Peleyoids journey. I hope you're doing amazing. We're beginning, and we're gonna begin a new topic today called Harshah, Appointed Advocate. I just want to point out uh Khasthem. You know, we started you know several hundred days ago with the Peleoids. This is the calendar, and it's an incredible accomplishment and achievement. And thank you so much to the Haqseik Muser program for the daily learning. Um, and this official cycle ends on Monday, but the Haqseik program is going to continue beginning Tuesday, the 12th of May, with Os Vov. And I encourage you to continue to join us. If you you know stopped could to start again, if you want to encourage others, let them know about this shear, let them know about the program. Visit haqseik.com. There's like 10, 12 Magidishur who who and you could, you know, choose. And it's an amazing opportunity to learn the holy words of the Paleoites. So, with that, let's do today's um Limud. Uh Zahabra Khazal taught us in Shavuas Vashir, like Sekam of Zehaba Bershah. Somebody, right, who is appointed as an advocate, he has to be careful with his position of authority. Shu'iva Sabi al-Riv Allah. He should not get involved in an argument, in a confrontation, in a fight. That's not his own. Yes, although there are certain leeways where he can get involved because of his high position. Somebody who loves other yiddin, he shouldn't desire to enter into these debates al-Beta Kasa for on monetary things, the khadaim la hakikmin o'er because in that journey of the fight, he's going to become distant with some other yiddin. Talmud Khacham specifically, if these advocates are Talmudhim and Sihni Zam, Ayyub Shitzarb, Talmud, because they stand a certain on a pedestal of greatness, and we look up to them, they have to be extra careful in this area. If they are going to cause one uh money from one person to leave and go to another, meaning they're going to say, hey, you gotta pay that guy, but Dina Badayana, the Bachamim, the person who's being who's um Chaev, the one who has to pay, he's not gonna be so happy as to Mircham, and he might talk badly about them. Kia Dum huanfesh, because the blood is the soul, but it's a play on words, dumb is like dummin, which is money is almost so essential, it's such an essential aspect to one's life, and therefore people aren't gonna be able to hold themselves back from talking negatively about these people. The name al of a look, and because of this, you're over on um placing a stumbling block. There's also an issir that you're placing before them because you're causing a desecration of God's name, Acham, which is very severe. Well, Pratt Ma Rav Muiratik, this is especially true if the Rav is a decisor of Tairav, to Siser of Dinva, Tamukhach, and a Tamukhacham who digs a ditch with all of these back and forths and analysis analysis of Balpumul Khaiv Zazaki to obligate the innocent man, it's a terrible thing. To obligate an innocent man, this causes destruction. It's a flame that rises on its own, which causes tremendous destruction. Like he talks about in that section. Somebody who's God fearing, but even he gives him all even if they give him all the riches in the world, like that, he's not going to involve himself in this type of debate. Vidarshi Hashem Lakzotov, realizing that somebody who seeks out and pursues God, he will not lack any good. Of course, there are certain circumstances where a person just can't completely get out of being responsible. Let's say his brother, his father is going to Earth Sob and Yukumyada Khim, and they're leaving over their money, so he's got he, this person who's staying back in Khutzarts, he should care for them. Who else should other than him? Who's gonna care more than him? His family. And he doesn't have any relatives to watch, ishog and shivakh, you can't find anybody else who is really too um or you know honest enough to look over his stuff. Right? When there's no man, you gotta be the man. You're letting a guy go to our soul, and he's not gonna worry about his stuff because he knows that you are taking care of it. That would be a circumstance where you should use your advocate powers and you should um get involved in another person's business. Then it does become quote unquote your fight. However, even if you do accept this case, you try to take responsibility in a way where you're not gonna have to go to court on the owner's behalf to get involved in debates, etc. Raksheimishda vekecha. Rather, you're gonna you're gonna attempt to oversee his business business and make sure it's good and good. As much as you can, Bishom Mishra, in a way that's done with peace and decency. And this is a claw in life in general to not be so quick to fight, but to try to be Ayyub Shalom Vraydev Shalab, to try to cool the waters, keep the waters cool, and stay cool, calm, and collected in all of our doings, because you know people can get us all nerved up and racked up, then angered. But let's try to calm down, relax, realize Dar She Hashem, the Yachotov, doing the right thing. Hashem will not um take any good away from you. Everybody should have an amazing Shabbos, and we'll pick up on Sunday uh finishing this topic. Then Monday we'll continue and complete the section of Hey. And Tuesday, Haksaik is starting a new journey, a new a new cycle of the learning of the Paleoids. We're going to begin with letter Vov, and I encourage everybody to join and to encourage others to join. Have an amazing day.