Honoring Parents After They Pass On | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 155

Orechevre, today is Sunday, Pelayoit. Here we go, continuing the topic in letter Chaf, the topic of Tiburavain, respecting one's parents. It would be fitting for the wise son to gladden his father. V Save Shait Savan Venu Shaitzavenu Doverk de Lahasoso Lakim Tsu Draisa. And you should desire that the father will ask him for things so that he can fulfill the darais of Yahvim Mahbur, even if it's difficult. And the Yitzhuhara lurks nearby. He convinces us to just shirk our responsibilities. Yargazitova, Yitzhara, we have to inspire the Itov to battle against the Yitzhara. He should bear the yoke and never weary Vlo Yacher Milasos Kehola Yotzimi Piv, and he should not delay to do what comes out of his father's mouth. Shema Yikadmenu Akher, lest somebody else comes and beats him. Ulfum, not like beats him, but you know, wins. And come, you know, if the father asks for water, be the first sibling to go and get the water. That's the point. Ulafun Tsara Agrava Peresbail Mazeh, according to the war um the action, that's the level of reward. She lobanim who gone him. Um he will have children who are upstanding. She'll such. In truth, if this was the only reward, dialiga basim tiparn of kideluskar sah, it would be worth it for him to toil with twenty nails. The Homegamasabidela. So so The entire ambition of the wise son should be to know that his father desires so that he can fulfill his wishes. The last is not sure, and to bring pleasure to Hashem. If Hashem has bestowed a child with wealth and the father is poor, meet Allah of the Father's big allocal circle be saved. It's the responsibility of the son to sustain his father. He should do it happily. If um there are others He has to instruct all of them to be vigilant with the honor of his parents. There are those children who get along well with their father and their mother. Um Avob Mishanasa Isha Kama Kalbachamos but once he marries someone else the you know the daughter in law ends up rebelling against the mother in law Sisa S Balas Kitata and it causes strife and arguments. But somebody who desires life, it's proper for him to protest his wife's actions in this case, and even to scold her into silence when needed. the hot is das ab of emo to ease the mind of his father and his mother, To make sure that the parents don't become upset. Afterwards, he has to go and appease his wife in private. Umyadrichana Bedarhisha, he has to rebuke her if necessary, guide her into the proper path. This is the proper way. Vikar Kavur Hushihimhab de Bimoso, the main um honor for one's parents is to give them honor after they pass away. Never forgetting. Lokimo Rabi Meyamha, it's this is not like how many people act. She Shainam Zahim Sabiyam Yamam Malabiyom Yartimat where some people they only remember their parents on the day of their yardsite. Shamim Kadish Vinosimat Sakulam Dimat. They'll learn a little bit, give some Taka, say the Kadish. Aylahamla Abba Shemitsabma Banam Shivalami Bare Shaka as well is upon the fathers of such children, They wait and they hope for their children to come and redeem, redeem them from their place in Gahanim. Shabazhaisum Kemat Lomale Vla Murat, for with this, with these meager offerings, they essentially will accomplish neither uplifting nor descending of Alavaishto Yehimoriad. Hopefully, it will not cause the parents to descend further into Gahanim. Mashaisim Rabbi Miyamahar is showing Kadish Bamrutzes. Some people, right, when they do say Kadish, they do so quickly. Bikhain Birchho is afhtar, as well as the Aftara, um Shkios Miyav Miyavan, who can disturb the mistakes that they make when they mumble these blessings. They um they What do they do? Um they they approach it with the shamefulness, and they're they become afraid. And uh instead of bringing delight to their father, they approach it with the sense of I'm afraid. Garm Nega, Chasusham, instead of causing Oneg, they rearrange the letters of Oneg, and Chasusham cause Nega, they cause affliction instead. Okay, wishing you a wonderful rest of the day, and Ritzusham tomorrow will pick up this topic of Kibid of Aim as we continue from the words Hine Kichein. Have a wonderful day.