Day 239 | Pele Yoeitz - How to be a Good Human Being
Hey Several, welcome back. Day 239 in our Peleoit's journey. We are going to continue and complete the section of Hain Sedek of A Righteous Response, the power of our words in keeping to it, and the times when it is important to change our mind. As always, the Paleoit always has insights to offer that perhaps we wouldn't have otherwise thought about. And it's an incredible Limut. I continue to appreciate you coming along this journey. And let's continue to explore. We have a couple more weeks left of this first cycle of the Haxek. And then Rint Hashem starting May 12th, we're going to continue learning this safer Peleoites. In the art school, I believe it's volume two. You could sign up. They're offering free um free the soft covers, so you could sign up. If you haven't joined our WhatsApp group, you could join it. If you haven't joined Hachek yet, of course, you should join it. Go on their website, they have an amazing app. And let's do it. Let's go. Here we go. The Hein Rabim Atashieshle, Midazush, Andam Bidiburam. Many people have such a strong display of keeping to their word, meaning they're so invested in the words that they say, and but it comes to haunt them because it ends up being too strong, it's too extreme. But call the Yutis Khan B say dam, they end up losing. Because of course, to keep your word when you say you're gonna do something good, that's an amazing thing. But these people are so strong and so staunch with it and resolute that even with something bad, which is still wherever they say that they're going to do something that's not good, they still stick with their word. And that's bad. Afilo and love rape. Even if many people urge him to change his mind, he says, no, the varyev shashana. I can't change my words, I can't split them up. Whatever he's gonna say, he's gonna say it. Even if the words bring me all of the corpses in the world, I'm still gonna say it, because my word is a word. You gotta keep it. That's a terrible thing. Adam Kazep, Yasurah. If you encounter this guy, run away. He's gonna have many enemies. Umarva loves Sinavata's. He's gonna be, people are gonna hate him, he's gonna be dealt with competition. But Figu Banovishaloyimva, even in his own home, he's not gonna find serenity. The people in his house, his wife, his children, they're not gonna, they're gonna start not to listen to him. They're not gonna accept his words, Kivan Shaimra. He says, Everything I say, I'm gonna do. That could be scary if you're in in a house. With Vahilo Yosharaika, my words will never go to naught. Zura Khaila to sickness goim komahla, and it causes all kinds of illnesses. Says the Palayites, and we're gonna include with this chapter. Well I'm sorry, with this paragraph. This is the rule for a good mur for a good person. Want to know what the rule of thumb is for a good person? Listen to this. Shyachba, you should be able to be a person that's humble enough to concede to others. According to the moment, to forgo your own opinion to others, to the opinion of whoever else you're dealing with. You should be able to be appeased. Think before you speak. Once you say and commit to do something good, make sure to do it, don't deviate. Well, Khino Shia Limer says the Pelio, it's better to first say, better if you're not sure you're gonna do something, don't say it. And then if you want to change your mind and go ahead and do it, then go ahead and do it. That's better, Mishyemer Shiyasa Vyasebo. That's better than saying you're gonna do something, you're gonna do a favor for somebody, and then you don't end up doing it, that's worse. Backing out looks foolish, it's embarrassing. The opinion of your friend shouldn't be um taken for not for granted, but it shouldn't go empty. Uh the way I understood that is if somebody sends you a message, somebody calls you, call them back. If somebody sends you a text, respond, right? Things like that. It's very frustrating if you feel like you're talking to a wall. Uh the law you says that don't um like argue against people so often. In order to fulfill what it says, tell him, not only should you um want peace, but you should pursue it and chase it. But Lokimorabashminyadim, not like many business people, Shaim Laikbas Lases, who what are these people, they say, no, I don't care, I don't really care what I'm about to do. I just don't want to satisfy my friend, because my opinion is the most important thing. Zumina Sid Day, and the Ain Roy Lassus Kane, you shouldn't do that, I'll leave a lot of a kid, except when you're being machine, children at home, kidamalam shlaihi lahmido roll, so lachlam would be shallo, to be able to train your children to be able to be staunch and value your opinion, meaning at home for little children, a person should stick with his opinion and shouldn't be so wishy-washy. But it's different than older kids, says the Peleotava. When you're communicating with other people, and even your older children, type like ever sly, don't be so strong in your own opinion. Make sure you're heard. Make sure the older people are heard, make sure your children are heard. Older people, sorry, I said that wrong. The gudalim, the older ones, the adults in this case, should listen to the children, they should listen to the to the youngsters. That's gonna create this bond, this relationship, because you respect me and I'll respect you. The Umr Business Rachel like it says in Tina's law mead and rachana, a person should be soft like a reed. And for by doing this, his memory will always be as a righteous man, Katama Ifrah Erez, he's gonna be like a date palm that blossoms. Alright, that concludes this section of Hingzedek. Let's be careful and with our words, and if we say we're gonna do something good, let's make sure to do it. If we say we're gonna do something bad, it's okay. Not only it's okay, but you're supposed to deviate and not stick with your word. And Reshem will continue tomorrow with a new topic called distraction. What's that? See? Distraction. We're gonna learn about Paliois. We're gonna learn the Paliois. What do you have to tell us about distraction? Um, we'll be less distracted in life. See you tomorrow.
