Day 210 | Pele Yoeitz - On Demand!

0:00 Hey everybody, hope you're doing well. Welcome back to Heli today 210, the number of years Kwal Yusral was in Egypt. So very significant. Here we go. Hakpadah, being demanding of others. Is it good? Is it bad? Let's see. Hakpada hitailuda sagaiva. Hakpada, being demanding of others, is actually an outcome of haughtiness, arrogance. Me nephesh viad baso techala, it destroys the body and soul. Because a life of haughtiness is not a life. Oh may of us from this primary attribute. Many, many different offsprings, outcomes come about, like hatred, with tahras, competition, machikis, argumentation, reloshonhar, fachina, rose, rapus.

0:44 Many bad things come about from arrogance and being machbit. Umman de Kapit Min Shemaya, Kaptin, Kafdin Bahade al Calda Barpesha, somebody who's machbit on others. So Hashem is Makbit on them on every little thing called Kabul to know conversely. It's more easygoing, you know, from heaven down to, you know, from Hashem's perspective to us. We have Pisar Yushgal Nabata, you'll twell and tranquil. Now it's true, the Palliard is saying, this Midah of being Maqbed, it's not like a person has like worked on being Maqbed on others and acquired this bad midah.

1:27 It's part of the in-green-born you know uh characteristic of a person. Somebody who's not Maqbid, that's a God gift, right? That that's a gift. That's not the norm. And true that is parenthetically, this is the case with all bad traits that a person doesn't have, he should be thankful, because that's a gift. Naturally, a person is inclined towards these bad midos. However, even though a person is born with this um ingrained focus on being maqbid, a person says the Palioit is able to control his personality. He can be uh he can be in control of his character, trait, Vyal Yideish Dad Lusub through great effort, Yaimliom every day, but shabas Taurus with pure thought, which is an effort with Sifre Musur, learning Sifre Musar like the Pelioit, he can actually switch, and the bad meeters can turn to good shabbas, and he could go away from the deadly minds of Lishmaris Derchaim, and he's gonna guard the life of true vitality.

2:33 Uh, the Varm Kite and Ish, Liberson should pay attention to this, to be saved from this trait of being demanding. Elohim l-el Bayerachid writes about it later on, Bayrech Ava, or earlier on Bayrez Ava Asray and Bayrech Gaiva Yishma Khmesigwak. Okay. Says the Paleoitz Vitr. When it comes to a person's own home, he should try and try as hard as he can not to be mockbed too demanding on his spouse and the shars of bin Ibnes on the people in his home. There's this double provocation that's incited from these that people go against his own what he wants, that he's mockbit on them.

3:17 It's it's more of a common um situation that uh husbands are mockbit on their spouses and something that we all have to work on. But somebody who's got a fear, a person should be humbled and think just like this person, I'm also a mortal human being. Has granted me any ounce of respect that I ever wealth, it's very possible that this other person, the spouse, the certain in our house, the the child, whatever it is, it's very possible that they actually are more respected than me upstairs.

4:01 It's discernible there, meaning by him, Nikar. If he is in my honor, because maybe I did something good for him. Because Hashem commanded him to honor me. Allah's come, I am um responsible and required to honor my creator, Yosuga Ysya, Shahadivtuba, Alive Gomal, Madin Hiker Vadimov, I'm not sure if I'm not sure. How many times have I angered a kurish barku and gone out of line, but still um I I want a certain level of respect.

4:45 This is very important. Like the Gamar McGillah tells us of the way a person measures others, that's how he is going to be measured. Because Isa Khazel's like this. A person should uh take to heart and become strengthened every single day to shove a ref alo, and there he will be able to be, uh he will repent and be healed. Says the Pel Yot. Um no, however, me das hakba roy lachzigba negar khaveral hakbit al kaboida. So we are we should be demanding in certain regards, but not in a negative way. We should be man demanding in terms of our level of respecting others. That's what we should be makbit on. Be makbit on being a good person, be makbit on respecting others, be makbit on kve it.

5:33 Be makbed on other persons, respect Vishlaver al Day to Vishla's never negative, I feel Dakmanadaka not to do anything that's going to um hurt somebody else. Kimitzaras Khavir is somebody who pains his friend, Kilotzir, Mullit's like he's painting a whole world of kimba mish, but a feelum hard, kingdom of ne Khair, Vinimusvinitzar. A person should be very careful. Somebody might be grossed out by something that you do, even like killing, uh uh destroying a louse or something like that. Uh maybe he'll become disgusted by that. Even if he doesn't have intent to hurt somebody else, you have to be able to think broadly beyond yourself. Someone who thinks about this, he he should, you know, remove his hairs. Yamudala Mishburk Babyod, be careful, everything he does.

6:23 To do that which is good in the eyes of Hashem and in the eyes of people. Kilofaminba Meshadam Kheshim to Himbaina Kabira, who's are sometimes a person thinks he's doing something good for his friend, but in reality he's hurting him. Any thing that possibly can detract from Kavada Brios, he should run away from that. Every person you should suspect them, maybe they're a robber, but respect them like they're a great Tana. Rab Namyna Toyva Ochima Summershem does not hold back good from those who live their lives and walk with integrity.

7:07 He'll help them. That people should like him. And you'll find favor and goodness in the eyes of God and man. Says the Palaeoids to conclude this section of Akbabla. The Alakas come and come, should have a person has to be Makbit for the respect, just like we talked about, a person should be Makbit to respect others. The person, of course, has to be Makbit to respect his his kona, to respect God. Lasus Kola should be khaki mitzus, my sintob to do mitzos and mysintob, everything you can immediately do, so live and beyond. Lasus Nachas Rach Leo to create a Nachas Ruch Tasham, Dikdukemitsus, to flee from a virus and to be careful, to do the mitzvos and the particularness.

7:52 But the sofodagin should be dying, that which the Tyrus says and that which the rabbis tells. Not to cause any ounce of pain or anger of a gala, myla, ashra, ish your shap, praiseworthy, is a man who um who fears God, so who awakens him from his slumber, and he's not going to be drowsy.

8:34 This is the totality of man, not to be machbed on others, but to be mockbed on ourselves, to be respectful for others, for a spouse, for children, for Khaverim, and of course to the Boreal and Prince Hashem. Everyone should have an amazing day, and I will pick up with his odeos tomorrow. All the best.