Be a Son to Your In-Laws | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 77
Alright, Chaper, we are back, Peleyoitz. Today's topic is about honoring one's father and mother-in-law. Here we go. A person has to respect his in-laws. The truth of the matter is, people are pretty much vigilant in there. We don't treat our in-laws as outlaws, but as in-laws, as like like parents. But they provide us with words of pleasantries and they provide us with benefits. He has to act with honor towards his in-laws of Al-Ikar Kabulhul Khabdub and Muslim says the Palayo's The primary way of showing honor is after they already passed away. This is especially true if you're the son-in-law, meaning you're the only son, meaning the the they only have daughters, and you're that son, right? So it's especially important. You have to care for them, show compassion, and to show them honor while they're alive and after they pass. And this was going to provide them comfort, the fact that the fact that they didn't have any male offsprings on their own. You being that son, you being that son-in-law, you being that worthy suitor of their daughter, you're going to make up for that, shach. And a person can uh moreover, uh person the sons-in-laws, if they're deemed worthy, then the daughters are in a certain way more preferable to him than sons themselves. Furthermore, there's an argument to be made that a person's obligation to honor his in-laws is greater than the obligation to honor one's own parents. That's amazing. It's true, your parents brought you to this world. But by your in-laws giving you their daughter, it's through them now you're able to be saved from sin and you're going to be able to build a mirzham a family. Become a malos taivisl, ishvi ish zachu, and think about all the incredible benefits there are of a healthy marriage. And it's the in-laws that are facilitating that, right? Because they gave you their daughter in marriage. Become a yagyos, become a trachus, trahu, khama, vacamos, think about all the entire journey that your wife took grow growing up in the home of your in-laws. And everything that they put into her, you have to you you owe them everything. Vajasios until finally they married her off to you, right? All the expenses that came along in raising her to be the Framayid that she is. This was as hard for them like iron. And how will they ever be repaid? You know how they're going to be paid? Repaid? By you, by being a good son law. Not to be a denier of good of good, but you're going to have a caras atovlius Lohem Kibben. And this is the probably the more most important line I would say that we just learned today. And do whatever you can to be us like a son to your wife's parents. That concludes today's section. We'll pick up with this topic of uh one's in laws tomorrow. Wishing you all the best. Have a tremendous show and bias and have a great respect for your in laws. All the best.
