It is OK If Nobody Notices You | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 84
Alright, Khhevra, how are you? Day 84 Pelioit. New topic today, the topic of khashivus, recognizing the significance, the significance of the things that we do. This is a very, very important section. Here we are, Khiyuvya Ramya, Lehaksivesa Mitzvah. It's so important, it's incumbent upon us to recognize the great significance of every single mitzvah. Somebody who honors that, uh somebody who honors the my messengers honors me. Hashem. I think today there's so many swarm stores, and I think a lot of you didn't uh connect to this. Um, and if someone doesn't yet go to the swarm store, just look around, go buy yourself a swarm shelf, a billy. You know, they say a billy from Ikea is sold like every six seconds or something like that. Buy yourself a swarm shelf, put swarm on there, go honor the swarm. Says the Paleoites, a person has to show the great significance to these swarm, khalahim and show them honor Shaheim Hashuv Malbushe Hamelach Svarm are like the garments of a king. Fascinating. A person has to give honor to every person. Anyone who did a person or even thought to do you good, you have to respect them and and and have that consideration. Even if that thing that they wanted to do to you or the thing that they did to you wasn't really so important to you, the fact that they did it for you, you have to respect them for that. You have to smile at them, kilohiha shu et slo hibre, showing as if it was greatly significant to you. Zehu darahishar, this is the proper way to act. Aval Gabi Dide, however, when it comes to a person's own honor, says the Bel Ais, Lo yivaki Shakeshivus, a person should never pursue prestige, he should never seek honor. He should never take offense if others do not recognize him or afford him the honor that he thinks he deserves. If the opportunity presents itself to him to be offended regarding something in this realm, meaning he wants to have that, um he wants to be recognized, and the yitzahara is always there. He wants you to seek the honor, to feel that persuasion. He wants you to get the feel that you should deserve of a certain level of respect. Don't give in to the Yitzhara. Lobiko rig braba khovas to horos. Rather, you should prevail, be live with strength, use thoughts of purity to overcome this. It shouldn't matter if a person speaks to you in a negative way or even in a positive way, your self-esteem and khashivas should be over here. It should stay, it should stay exactly the same, meaning it should you should have your own self-worth that I am incredibly amazing. It doesn't matter if somebody tells me that or if someone tells me otherwise, it it doesn't really matter. Whatever somebody says, it shouldn't matter. Like we just said, okay, a person, um, if he would only realize the elevated status of somebody who's disgraced and who's lowly in this world, meaning and somebody who's okay with that, living with that humility, he's held in great esteem in the next world. He would actually just beg the person, don't give me any honor at all. Meaning if he would see with the right purview with the right um lenses of what's really going on, he wouldn't really seek that honor that he thinks he seek uh wants. He instead you he'll be like the scorn of humanity despised by people, and he'll be okay with that. It would be it would be better if you're not even noticed in this world. Right? They taught us that in the heavenly academy, somebody who's seen as great in this world is insignificant in the next world, while the opposite is true. Somebody who's seen insignificant in this world is really held in high esteem and is seen great in the next world. Tomorrow, wishing you all the best.
