Gladden the Chosson in Your Way | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 88
Chavra, I hope you're doing fantastic. I hope your nisham is feeling good. Here we are, Palayoid's Chassun bridegroom. Let's jump right in. Um Rabbasin's Khan Uvracha. Today's day 88, by the way, which is pretty amazing. Okay. Kalanena Mesuda As Chasan bait Samchavish. Somebody who benefits from the banquet of a chassan, he goes to Chasana, but he doesn't gladden, he doesn't make the chassan happy. Then he violates the five kolos, the five sounds that are mentioned in scripture. But if he does gladden the chasan, he merits to comprehend the Torah, which was also given in five sounds. Whatever a person can do personally, then that's what he should do to gladden the chassis. By doing what seems to him will find favor in the chassis' eyes. For some people, maybe it's singing, maybe some it's dancing. Others it might be singing, you know, um saying jokes or whatever, being Mesamah the guy, speaking at his zufra. Whatever it is that you can do to make the guy happy, that's what you need to do. Um bital you're a sad, right? You can do all these things as long as you're not going against your creator. There's no head there to make someone else feel good, but then you're actually doing something against Halakh in the process. There's no there's no room for that. Avalote Bazos be so Lisha Shir Gaimashir Govim. You know, if your chasson hires you to sing his favorite song, which is some inappropriate rap song, that's also not a good thing. You shouldn't do that. Um, you know, don't sing songs of idolatrous, love songs, etc. Well the Daber Divid Navalos with Latinos Bishwame Chassan, don't think that you're such a geschmaxter guy by ripping the chassin to shreds by Ufrov, because you got some people to laugh in the crowd. Meanwhile, you're completely doing something that's that's against Halacha and that's against that's against everything. Nobody wants that. Okay. Uli Daber Divray Navalosan says, Oh, fine. Um we just read that. Vinafshaalov teval bash maches borrow. Sorry, he says, What right? What what what is he actually gaining by doing this? At the same time, fine. Maybe he's making one of the guys in the crowd laugh, but at the same time he's angering God. So, you know, you choose what's the right thing. What's the main joy of the pro of the bridegroom? It's the fact that he his sins are being forgiven on this special day, which is a big deal, right? Especially if he had a lot of sins. Okay. He's got to think and contemplate. Think about how clean he is at this time, and now he has to guard himself and be vigilant not to return back to his foolish ways. And those who are gathered there have to tell the chassin, Rayhi, Basilafnay Amalk, see how beloved you are before Hashem right now. Shemaikhal Khalavan is he just forgave you from all your misdeeds. You're like a king right now. You're a clean slate, and you're like a king. You're on top of the world. Everyone is here honoring you, Sam Chasah. They're rejoicing in you. Don't squander this opportunity. This ayah shavu. There's nothing like this wedding celebration day. It's impossible not to rejoice with the tremendous joy of connecting to this mitzah of the day. Alreva te vesha sulka Hashem Shagilasman Hazet, recognizing the great good that Hashem has done for you, that he brought you to this momentous occasion. Ubar Bishvilcha Sasun Visemcha, he has created gladness and joy specifically for you. And Hashem himself comes to gladden the chasan cala matikim it in Vyodana Rutanchoven Chacha. This is like beyond our pay grade, it's deep stuff. If only we could know um what it is that you would appreciate and in what way we can gladden your heart. Let's go do that. Um, do anything that you can do to bring joy to the chasan yesam chasakala. Well, Yoid says that the men should gladden the chassan, and the girls should gladden the Kalah, and not the other way around. Okay, we'll continue with this topic Mirzhen till tomorrow. Wishing you an amazing rest of your day.
