Day 208 | Pele Yoeitz - Trash Talking Belongs in the Trash

0:00 Hey everybody, hope you're doing amazing. Today is Friday Air of Shabbos. Uh sorry if this year is coming out a bit late, but here we go. We're continuing day 208, and we continue a new topic, halben of public humiliation. In other words, don't humiliate others. That's in a nutshell. But let's see what the value it says. It's a tremendous isr to embarrass somebody. That person has no portion in the world to come. Not to embarrass his friend. So many people they just fight and quarrel. And they trash talk. And they talk about the negativity and some of the they bring up past experiences, past things that they did.

0:42 I said to have things that were not good, also. This is trash talking. It's called trash talking because it's trash. It belongs in the garbage. Don't bring it out. You take out the garbage. You don't bring it in, right? So leave it outside. Don't bring it in. Um, you're you and some people even trash talk in a way that they're not even bringing up things that actually happened, but they're just making things up. And he is a khamarin's. But when you talk about things that actually happened, that the person did do, you're trash talking on things that actually happened. That's even worse. He is goes from a red face to a white face.

1:26 That is likened to murder. But he says, this type of person who brings up past experiences that actually happened, he doesn't even do tshuva on that because he thinks I said the truth. I said what you did. So why would I do tshuva? He doesn't realize the severity of what he just did. It's like he just murdered the guy. Some people embarrass others without intention. They talk about their negativity without them even realizing that they're talking about that. It's not their intention to make fun. Hari, who nikad besuhabana. He's guilty of inadvertent humiliation.

2:08 Well, khinyofishtika kibirov devaram lo yak tal pesha. Such an important claw. The best thing to do is to live your life with shtika, to be quiet, because the more you talk, the more you'll likely come to a transgression. But to distance somebody from sin, then you could say something, somebody who's against the t goes against the terror, mochika al panab, but say that's fumach sekutuma. So let's say you give rebuke to somebody, but he still is invested in his evil uh tumatika ways. So if so for a kharam brahman, this type of person you could uh call out in public so that way he does, and that way he will go on a positive way. But again, this is always in the case where you know the person's going to actually listen.

2:50 Okay, that concludes our section of Halbin of Public Humiliation, and uh let's always remember remember trash talking is trash. So take it out and don't bring it in your home, don't bring it in your life. Wishing you all the best and have an amazing Shabbos.