March 13, 2026
Day 208 | Pele Yoeitz - Trash Talking Belongs in the Trash
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Hey everybody, hope you're doing amazing.
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Today is Friday Air of Shabbos.
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Uh sorry if this year is coming out a bit late, but here we go.
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We're continuing day 208, and we continue a new topic, halben of public humiliation.
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In other words, don't humiliate others.
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That's in a nutshell.
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But let's see what the value it says.
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It's a tremendous isr to embarrass somebody.
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That person has no portion in the world to come.
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Not to embarrass his friend.
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So many people they just fight and quarrel.
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And they trash talk.
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And they talk about the negativity and some of the they bring up past experiences, past things that they did.
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I said to have things that were not good, also.
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This is trash talking.
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It's called trash talking because it's trash.
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It belongs in the garbage.
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Don't bring it out.
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You take out the garbage.
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You don't bring it in, right?
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So leave it outside.
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Don't bring it in.
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Um, you're you and some people even trash talk in a way that they're not even bringing up things that actually happened, but they're just making things up.
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And he is a khamarin's.
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But when you talk about things that actually happened, that the person did do, you're trash talking on things that actually happened.
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That's even worse.
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He is goes from a red face to a white face.
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That is likened to murder.
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But he says, this type of person who brings up past experiences that actually happened, he doesn't even do tshuva on that because he thinks I said the truth.
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I said what you did.
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So why would I do tshuva?
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He doesn't realize the severity of what he just did.
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It's like he just murdered the guy.
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Some people embarrass others without intention.
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They talk about their negativity without them even realizing that they're talking about that.
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It's not their intention to make fun.
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Hari, who nikad besuhabana.
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He's guilty of inadvertent humiliation.
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Well, khinyofishtika kibirov devaram lo yak tal pesha.
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Such an important claw.
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The best thing to do is to live your life with shtika, to be quiet, because the more you talk, the more you'll likely come to a transgression.
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But to distance somebody from sin, then you could say something, somebody who's against the t goes against the terror, mochika al panab, but say that's fumach sekutuma.
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So let's say you give rebuke to somebody, but he still is invested in his evil uh tumatika ways.
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So if so for a kharam brahman, this type of person you could uh call out in public so that way he does, and that way he will go on a positive way.
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But again, this is always in the case where you know the person's going to actually listen.
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Okay, that concludes our section of Halbin of Public Humiliation, and uh let's always remember remember trash talking is trash.
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So take it out and don't bring it in your home, don't bring it in your life.
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Wishing you all the best and have an amazing Shabbos.
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