There is No Such Thing as a PERFECT Human Being | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 93
Hey Khevra, I hope you had a beautiful Shabbos. Today is Sunday, day 93 in our Peleoids journey. It's a new topic today. If you're brand new, welcome. If you're not brand new, welcome back. In the Chodum Sha'in Boezer Khoiser. The topic today is the topic of imperfection. And if it's relatable, it makes sense because that means you're a human being. And that's how the Paleoids begins. There's no such thing as somebody who does not have a lacking Bemidos of a Deus Vichodum Kaizev. There's no such thing as a perfect human being. Just like there's no such thing as grain without straw, they ain't blah or no wood without smoke. There's no such thing as a human being who doesn't make mistakes. If you've if you've ever met a human that doesn't make mistakes, then he's not human. Okay. But the only perf the only thing being that's perfect is God Himself. If somebody has a fault, don't look at him in a bad way, because guess what? You're not perfect either, and you also have a fault. But we know the gener how the general rule works in psychology. We tend to see negativity in others and we view ourselves as I'm good. A person doesn't see his own faults. It's very possible that while he's ignoring his own faults, actually the thing that he's lacking in his own life, his chisonas, are worse than the thing that his friend is lacking, meaning him relative to his personal status. You never know. Someone else might have might look like they did something much worse than what you did, but we're not judged based on other people. We're judged based on ourselves and where we fall into our realm, our own status. It's incumbent upon every one of us, ma'ukhazar, to think about and to contemplate what it is, where are we struggling? Where are we lacking in life? Where can I improve? Where can I be better? And part of this growth process is being willing to hear from others who might have a different outlook or perspective because they're not you, and they could help you out. So that might be a rebe, that might be a spouse, maybe it's the children to remind you. Okay, maybe it's uh friend, maybe it's a neighbor, who knows? Maybe it's you the guy who's next to you at Sho. Ask them, um, okay. Ask them, hey, is there something I can work on? And let them inform you. And if they tell you, hey, uh, you know, you could improve in this or that, I think you could then don't ignore them. Don't just settle, and you know, people often desire for their other people to stroke their ego for them, and they just want compliments. But this stuff can be just deceptive. This is the way of the wicked. A person should be God fearing and admit to the truth. A person should be willing, like we said, to hear from somebody who's greater than him, the chakhmov in whether in by wisdom or age, and uh nullify, humble yourself before him. Be willing to change your name, sorry, be willing to change your ways, each and every day, shlemos kashukal sherium, right, to the extent that you're you're striving towards levels of shlemos, higher degrees of perfection than you were yesterday. Like it says, when will my deeds reach the level of deeds of Avra Mitzuganyakov, the great Avos? And I think it's especially incumbent now, you know, the Svarm point out that the Tkiashvaram Trua, the shofar blasts are an illusion, it's marames, they correspond to, they're connected, the Avo Sagadoshim, Avra Mitzuginyakov, Tkiya Shvarim Trua. And I'm thinking, you know, during this time of year, it's especially Musugul to think about this particular Indian of Chiserf, where it is that I'm lacking. I'm not perfect. I have those moments of shvarim where it's things are broken, those moments of trua where things are even more broken. But ultimately, I'm sh I came from a place of of tkiya, long and straight and neverlasting. This is a var from Alexander Ebba, and I'm going to a place, uh Bez Hashem, of long, straight, and everlasting, back to a state of purity. And so, yes, in the middle, along this journey of life, we're gonna struggle and we face our humanness, uh, but that's okay. And and we we hear the tia shram, true atkiya. We're reminded of this, reminded of the avos, reminded of constantly yearning and striving and not settling. And it's okay, yes, I'm a human being, but now I want to grow, I want to become better, I want to become a better human being, and we can learn from the model of uh of the avos uh of of people that were just unbelievable human beings, and we can strive to become um we are their ants, we are their descendants, and we can strive to become like them because of toldos. If there's avos, that means there's also katoldos, and we have their DNA, we can be like them. So let's tap into the messaging of the Schifer blasts and become the best that we can. Wishing you all the best. I mean, we'll pick up with this topic of imperfection by tomorrow.
