The Fruit of Haste is REGRET | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 96

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Hey Khevra, how are you? Day 96, Peleoites. Let's jump right in. New topic today, very relevant to this time of year. It's the topic of regret, Shubihi Kharota, Gamura. The primary aspect of repentance is to regret what you did, Almash Asash, like regret that which you did, um, which you shouldn't have done. To the extent where a person regrets like killing um his only son out of anger or drunkenness, the regret regret that that person feels, to the extent that he would want to revive his son back to life, that's what it means to have regret. That's pretty powerful. Um they they regret what they did right away. They say if I wouldn't have done it, it would have been better. But it's not a full-fledged type of regret. Kilugamahshava as if to say it wouldn't it would have been better if I didn't do it, but it still would have been okay. Meaning right now I'm fine. I'm fine even after I sin. But but I would have been better off had I not. Because that's what the it's hard does. It makes it sm lessens the severity of sin. Um, it lessens it in our eyes. A person who has the slightest degree of life, in that he hasn't sunken into the abyss of a particular sin. And that's what it's talking about. It's permitted. And he no longer feels pain. And then it's very dangerous because at that point he's just gonna look forward to, and he's gonna look forward to the next opportunity to commit this sin, and he's just gonna go ahead and do it. It's not a real regret. Um, sorry about that, just adjusting my camaraderie. Okay. Abu H isha Shunokablibo Yuras Heshem Napsholochi, but a person who has a Ures Hem, his soul is alive, him to cough yitzir, the vraaver of a person. Uh the yitzar got to the better of him, and he committed a sin. When this person matures, this could be when he gets older, mammish, or right now he he matures in his state of spiritual levels. Like a woman in childbirth who trembles. This is what's befitting for somebody who rebelled as Piadonov against his master, Adon Ramanisabhiso Apanav, somebody who angered him. This is what he has to do. This is what it means to have regret. To the extent that a person feels remorse and regret and shivers Allah on the sin that he did. That's how much he will be cleansed on the flip side. This is Yesurum Shal Ava Shiban Lufi Royva Ava, which comes in according to the abundance of love she is though that he has, in my boy with God, Yoisavyse me beno, Yhidov Ruch and the Shmos, even more so than um the love that he has to his only son. His spirit will be saddened. Eich Osaragdullah, how could I have committed such a denigration? And this will be his sustenance, will afflated Goldola, will be a great salvation. So this will come to fix his sin. The greatest fence, the greatest protection a person can do in life is what? Use your brain and think. Think before you do. Kipri hamihirus harata is a concept from the Sefer Haredim. The fruit of haste is regret. A person who does things very quickly without putting maqsaba, without putting a thought to it. Whether it's for an avera or even for a mitzvah, when you just go through something really, really quick, a person ends up with regrets. Hence, the fruit of haste is regret. Umasun um and it's not a good tasting fruit. It's a very uh it's a very, I was gonna say undelius, but that's not a word, although it should be. It's a very undelicious tasting fruit. Um a person should be deliberate. Move to Khloshalo, Yachda, this type of person who's deliberate. He thinks before he does things, he will not sin. He's gonna be on the right path. Rakasa call is gonna do things properly at the right time. Kibaina of Yura Lavava Yavin is eyes see his heart under and his heart understands Acher's Davimer Shiso. He sees already what's gonna be right now, umatsu gede uloso, and he will find his redemption. Wishing you an amazing, wonderful rest of your day. And uh, I look forward to learning with you as the sham tomorrow.