March 30, 2026

Day 222 | Pele Yoeitz - Don't Be Too Extreme

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Hey everybody, welcome back.

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Peleoit day two, twenty two.

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Here we go.

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We're continuing and going to complete this section of Haskama, the section of communal agreements.

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The Peleoites is going to offer us some advice that we could apply not just for these communal agreements but to life in general.

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Here we go.

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When putting together these communal enactments, it's very important not to make the punishments harsh in a way that it's in the realm of Nachosh, which is a stands for nidoi, chairem, and shamta, which is excommunication, censorship, and denunciation, the chaddaim and the like.

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People are gonna fall.

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Alisaknubika's skummaviknas do it a little bit lighter, meaning there there should be a force with the enactment, and there should be knaas.

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So some type of money, some type of financial thing, or if you go against it, you have to pay something.

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But the truth is, it's enough just the fact that somebody who's gonna be over it, they're getting an Aveira.

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You don't have to now enact Nachas, Vigamli sakna tekana yester is.

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When you're making a tacana, don't make it everlasting.

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That now it's in place and it's this thing is going to last forever and all of eternity.

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No, we don't, it's too extreme.

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We're not supposed to be so extreme.

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We don't know what's gonna be.

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We shouldn't be so so different and treat this greater than how we treat um those people who go against something uh from Hashem.

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Right, he told his students, it's an important idea that Halevai, that the Mahishma, the fear of heaven, should be like the fear we have for people.

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And then when it comes to the people of flesh and blood, we fear them, so we we should don't be don't be more strict here than up there.

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Don't be so hotly pursuing after these people in a way that it's going to just increase sin, right?

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Sometimes people don't like that tremendous amount of pressure, it's not gonna be good in the long run.

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But Dynam, she's my dab, so she's gonna better to do a little bit now, that way it'll be more able to be fulfilled.

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People see that it's something that many are following in.

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Meaning, let's say the enactment is made.

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And people are saying that you know there people are too involved, or we have to somehow get rid of this.

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So, how's how do you get rid of these communal enactments?

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Take a vlogam.

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Don't just just don't just completely obliterate.

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The way you do it is slowly, slowly make it all the more lenient, etc., until it's gone.

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Just like there's an issue, a favoritism as as it relates to judgment.

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Oh, I didn't line askama so to so too, when it comes to these uh communal enactments, we have to uh treat it in a way where all people are treated equally.

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Everyone is equal.

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There's one terra, and that's what we go by.

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Oh, you say illumination, someone who does this, they will not falter this type of system.

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Provided that the that our actions are done for the sake of Hashem, the master of the universe, wishing you all the best and have an amazing rest of your day.