Be Grateful to the People who Point Out Your Flaws | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 94
Chevra day 94 Pelio. We continued our topic of Choser Imperfection. Remember, this shear is only for those who are not perfect. If you are perfect, no need to watch. Let's jump right in. Uh you like my Israeli Havarat Zogich. I didn't say tzarhitz. Okay, I liked it, so I thought I'd point it out. Somebody who points out to you your flaws, your chisturnos, the areas that you need to work out. You know, you should be grateful to them. They're helping you become a better human being. Like it says in the medrash. Somebody who causes another to sin. It's like worse than killing. It's actually better off. He's doing a better taiva than resuscitating the guy. I've a feeling Lufia may saying, but let's say your friend pointed out a flaw in you, but he was actually off and it wasn't actually accurate. That particular of course you have chisaros, but that particular thing that your friend pointed out is not an actual chisaro and stale, says the palette. The fact that your friend was trying to make you better, the fact that he pointed out this thing which he ended up being wrong about, still you should thank him for trying to make you better. But you should be careful, you shouldn't tell this to you in front of other people. You should never embarrass someone in public. Rather, take your favor and throw it in the horns. Meaning, you don't want to get in that you don't want to be in that realm of um taking your favor and throwing it to the horns. Okay. Well looky'emisan baun kichasnadas. The truth of the matter is there's no there's no khisar that's greater than the lack of intelligence. Being anika ani hadaskamram, or like the poverty of intelligence. Like it says in V'ikra Rabbah, Imdash Hasatama. If you're lacking wisdom, if you're lacking knowledge, then what do you actually have? This is the evil of man, Derachish Yashbainov. It's terrible when a person gets to a point where he thinks that he's so straight and there's no chisar and and everything ishakem inab tikvachimenum. Um but what happens if he says if you lack intelligence, then what have you actually acquired? Don't rely on your your mind, on your intellect. They point out his flaws, whether verbally or through something that they don't say, or just the way that they're acting. Don't say, don't don't like take pride and say, okay, I only have like four flaws, but like that guy has ten. Like that that's like weird. Don't do that. Have you ever seen such a thing? A thousand golden coins in front of him. Why? Because other people, they only have five, so you know I'm gonna be I I only I'm good with ten. Well, what does that mean? Oh, Shima Isha ni Ratzaber to Nav Shirkunas or a person says, uh just hit me ten times, I don't uh you know, it not to be like them who got uh hit a hundred times. Like what what's going on? Such a guy is gonna be Yukari. He's the guy is uh an insane. Okay, no doubt the same thing matter the same thing is is the same matter is true here. Alright, Heber, this um finishes up our topic for today. We're not done with this actual topic, it just finishes our topic for today. And Rich will pick up tomorrow with a section of Chyser, wishing you a fantastic rest of your day. And if somebody points out your flaws, thank them.
