Approach to Chinuch with Daughters | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 52
Chevra, how are you? I hope you had a beautiful Shabbos. Excited to learn with you another week of Peliotes. We're going to continue today with the section of Chinoch and complete this section. Today's topic in particular is about Khenochabanos education as it relates to daughters. How I propose it today's sheer is generously sponsored by my good friend Joel Gedalius and his Rebitson in honor of the birth of their daughter last week. Miriam Shoshana, may she grow up to be a tremendous nachas to her family, to Kleistral and to their bonus Olam. Alright, here we go. Vigamala Banos Chyuva Ramya Lakhancha Nulagila. Don't think that when it comes to daughters, you get by, that you don't have to educate them, right? Because there's no mitzvah of Talmud Torah or what have you. No, there is an obligation placed upon parents to educate daughters of the chanchan bachal molachos vikoshlemos of all forms of work, character, development, perfection, good personality traits, and the like of Yosushi Stap Gubamuat to teach them to be frugal, that their eyes should be beautiful, they should have a proper outlook and perspective on life. Educate the daughters that they shouldn't be lazy and they shouldn't be talkative. You know, women, girls in general like to talk a lot. Teach them in the that to speak in the in the right in the right way, in the right quantity as well. Vishad talkum beoidlaila visha call masabrezus. Educate them to live with alacrity, with zrezus of an accus, with the purity of chashus of a yehidus, with religious zeal. People should be able to praise her. To be very careful when it comes to children. Parents don't know who their mate is going to be. Who are they going to marry? Let's say she ends up finding somebody or soul mate who's a hot-headed type of guy of Nevais Koshem, and he has they have uh let's say she has difficult children, or she's accustomed to opulence and to bad character. What a misfortune that would be. A person has to educate a child uh girl to have Ura Sashem. It's so important that becomes her praise apostan Mishlay. It's incumbent upon the parents, to educate a daughter, especially as it relates to the brachosanos, you know, making blessings before before we eat, before we drink, etc. to teach her in the in the women mitzvah, the mitzvah chalah, and marital purity and malicha, salting meats like related to the kitchen. Uh, she should be very knowledgeable in a bichaltic dukayan in every single dinta of a chindina mitzvah, shitiy mulumada, of a chalmida omida telumuda. She should be very refined in all of her character traits. Let her understand what modesty is, that the great honor of a girl, Basmelah, first of all, that she's a princess, and the great honor is Panima. It's within, it's on the inside, it's with modesty, it's with sneus. What I said here today, meaning Palioitz, and and what we said last year, um, as it relates to Kenoch, these are just some of the aspects of educating one's children. Vyishmach vlakach, Palayoitz uses this term a lot to say, I'm only telling you the just the I'm telling you part of the story. There's so much more that you gotta continue learning and developing. Don't stop here, right? Don't stop here. That's the idea of Yosef Lekach. And this way you'll be happy and proud in this world of your children. Your soul will rejoice in the next world as well. I wrote more about this in the section of Ava Zaru. I inshon look over there with Shark, Sveikud Shashli, and the other holy works that I've written. Sisapaliot. What I'm teaching might sound repetitive at times because guess what? You know who uses that repetitive structure? You know who tax us with repetitiveness, who keeps coming back to us day in and day out? So we gotta come at him and and and attack him by being repetitive, repetitive. He always comes up with new strategies, he always comes up with something new, he meaning the evil looking nation. So says the Pelaj. That's it. We have to keep repeating day in and day out. We have to we give it we have to go over the same things over and over. Perhaps I'll be able to smite and banish it with divine assistance. May we all be able to educate our children in the proper Han Hugga in a proper way. I hope that you have a fantastic week. Again, thank you to Joel Gidalias for the sponsorship and Mirta Shem. I look forward to learning with all of you tomorrow.
